I stopped and squinted at you both watching porn but saying it's stupid to pay for it because there's 'free stuff out there'. Sex workers and performers should be paid or at the very least tipped for their work and people who buy p*rn shouldn't be shamed. It's a tough business where a lot of performers and workers content is stolen and uploaded to 'hub' sites and if you're going to watch it then you should pay for it and support the person who makes the material. I'm glad you worked out this conversation with your boyfriend but I did want to throw that out there as I felt that bit of the convo was a little jarring.